I was listening to NPR’s All Things Considered last week and heard an interview with Sapphire, the author of the novel Push, on which the movie Precious is based. The host asked why it was important that the character be obese, and I found this question and some wording in Bob Mondello’s movie review (“her face so full it seems incapable of expression”) to be at least irritating and perhaps borderline offensive–I felt that they seemed to view Precious and to some extent Gabourey Sidibe, the actress who plays her, as some sort of strange curiosity. So I loved the author’s straightforward and beautiful response, in the context of an anecdote about a white woman who had approached her to indicate that, after seeing the film, “she would never look at an overweight black woman again with the same judgment.” It made me happy to hear.
After seeing this film, she had to deal with an obese black woman as a feeling, intelligent person as a person who dreams, as a person who wants the things that she wants. So we brought up a stereotype, and we cracked it open, and a human being comes forth.
November 13, 2009 at 2:46 am
That is such a beautiful quote. That is one thing I hate about stereotypes, it takes humanity away from people and puts them in an often very ugly box
November 13, 2009 at 2:44 pm
Right, and I think people have to be held accountable for that. It is so much easier to judge people and discriminate against them for various reasons if you are secretly (or not-so-secretly) thinking of them as something less than human, or perhaps more accurately, as something less than you are. It is so easy to think of fat people, for example, as weak, lazy, and stupid instead of as human beings who are basically the same as you are except fatter.
November 26, 2009 at 11:02 am
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December 7, 2009 at 2:10 am
I did see it. It was an intense movie. There was a lot of depth to it and it would take a long time to touch on them all. But I like the light it shed on the idea that light skinned black people are more attractive than those with darker skin. A lot of people are surprised when i say this in conversation.
December 7, 2009 at 10:55 pm
I still haven’t seen it (grr) or read the book, but will have to keep an eye out for that theme when I do. Thank you for bringing up a facet of the film that sounds like it is significant but which I hadn’t heard about so far.